Trendy Addiction?
It seems like every few years or so, there is a new addiction that is almost, for lack of a better word, “trendy”. Recently, the trendy addiction is the “sexual addiction”.
Celebrity sex addicts such as Michael Douglas, who by the way, was one of the first to come out as an addict. There was also Scary Spice and of course who could ever forget Mr. ex-president Clinton. It’s hard to know what came first, the fame or the addiction. Is it possible some of these famous people just have these addictions because people want to sleep with them because they are famous? Would they still be as sexually active if they were just the average Joe Blow?
Billy Bob Thornton was seeing a sex therapist while married to Angelina Jolie. Unfortunately, instead of helping Billy Bob overcome his sexual addiction, he and the female sex therapist are alleged to have had a steamy affair. He should have found a male therapist.
Here are some numbers that you may find interesting. Seventy four percent of sexual addicts claim to have been physically abused. Eighty one percent of sexual addicts claim to have been sexually abused. Unbelievably, ninety seven percent of sexual addicts claim to have been emotionally abused. Psychologists believe that most, if not all addicts were deprived of physical touch, love, nurture and affirmation as children.
If you think you or someone you know has a sexual addiction, there is an online test you can take. The test is called SARA, which stands for Sexual Addiction- Risk- Assessment. In about twenty five minutes, you will be tested on whether or not your sexual habits may indicate an addiction. People with genuine addiction problems, no matter what the addiction should seek professional help as soon as possible. Let’s make sure we keep our sex lives healthy.
